Help!
There’s a lot of help available for your viva. The secret is to ask for help before all you can think is “Help!” Your supervisor can answer questions, offer opinions and put your mind at ease. Friends can listen, share...
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A Problem Shared
You’re the only person who can pass your viva, but there are many, many people who can support you before you get that far. It may be that you just need a little encouragement, but if you have a problem...
Reach Out
If your viva is coming up, ask your friends, your colleagues and your supervisor for help. Think about what you need, think about when might be the right time to ask, be specific – but ask. They would want to...
The Pillow Fort Principle
How can you make a sanctuary for yourself before your viva? How can you make a nice space for preparing, or create an environment that is going to help you feel good as well as get ready? It probably won’t involve setting...
Friends & Family
There may be a disconnect between you and your friends and family when it comes to the viva. Colleagues, peers, your supervisors – they’ll all have an idea of the stakes involved in a PhD and what the viva means....
Who Do You Know?
You are the only person who can pass your viva. That does not mean that you have to get ready alone. Who do you know who can help you prepare? Who do you know who can help you to feel...
Thank Your Supporters
You can’t get to the end of a PhD without supporters. They could have lots of different connections to you – your supervisor, your colleagues, family and friends – and they may help in lots of different ways. You need...
Asks, Favours & Requests
Not all viva prep needs to be done alone. It’s OK to simply ask, “Can you help me?” It’s OK to ask for a favour, “It’s not something little, but I really need help. Can you?” It’s even OK to...
Boundaries For Prep
If home is nearly everything now, how do you make the space – physically, mentally and cognitively – to do the work you need to prepare for your viva? You may need to close doors to signal to others you’re...
Who Do You Need?
Today’s post is even more personal than yesterday’s question. It depends on who is around you, in your circle, and what they can practically offer or do for you, as well as what you really need. The cast of characters...