The PhD, the viva, your prep, the discussion, the decision, coming to terms with what it means to have achieved after you pass…
”It takes time” is a phrase that can be applied to every aspect of everything to do with the viva.
It could be years, minutes or seconds, but there is time involved and a necessary passage of it. There might be pressure at different stages of your PhD journey, but no rush unless you make it that way.
Take your time to do whatever stage you’re at as well as you can.