Secret Prep
My friend Shaine didn’t tell any of us about his viva.
We didn’t even know he was actively preparing for it. We found out about his viva as it was happening! There was a hurried series of text messages around our group when we learned on the day. It was a shock but he had his reasons. And we still celebrated with him when it was over and done.
My typical viva prep advice would be to tell friends about your viva, ask for their help with your prep and so on. This is overridden by the greater need to make sure that your viva prep process meets your needs, preferences and circumstances.
If it’s important to you that your viva and prep time be secret then do that. And, more importantly, if you realise that something else is really important for your prep then follow that instinct too.
Prep is personal. Do what you need to do to get ready.
PS: You’ll find a lot more help with viva prep in the latest issue of Viva Survivors Select! The 2025 Issue collects twenty of my favourite blog posts from last year and adds two new pages of viva help – including a game that’s all about viva prep. You can find the zine here along with a few of the pages to get a sense of what the issue is like. Do pick it up if it seems helpful and you value what I share on the Viva Survivors blog 🙂 And please spread the word if you can!